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>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

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okay so i have been talking/texting this boy for two weeks straight. and i thought he was really into me. like he would text me first basically everyday and say hi to me in school all the time. so i thought everything was going great.

then on the bus one morning i get these swarm of texts and they were all from him, they said:

well i did want to say something, ive been thinking recently and im not sure if i want to get into a relationship again...well atleast not yet...i dated jess for so long and trust me im over her cause she is crazy but i just dont think i wanna start up something right now...like i think your a really nice girl and i think its so cool that you like a lot of the same things as me...im sorry if i sound like an ass im really not trying to be. i just wann stay single for now, and as i said its not you id say the same thing to anyone. im really sorry i dont want to sound like a jerk cause trust me it isnt you, who knows maybe in the future.

it was a complete shocker to me! i didnt expect it at all. now im so confused on what i should do. if he ever liked me/likes me? idk. his old girlfriend and him went out for almost 2 years, and hes right she is crazy. but idk im so confused. HELP ME! what do i do? what did all this really mean?

Hello :)

I say you should respect his decision. He sounds like he's telling the truth, and he was being as respectful as he could :)

If they went out for two years, he's probably afraid to get close to someone considering he just came out of a long relationship with someone he wasn't meant to be with. He needs time to reevaluate what he wants/needs, and I think it's great that he's not diving into another relationship so quickly.

Remain his friend. Support him in everything he does. And who knows, he might just ask you out sometime in the future!

Good luck

Uniq :)

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