My friend was in rehab for a few months and I was not allowed to have any contact with her. So, in that tine frame, I kind of have a new best friend. I got really close to this one girl, and she's probably a better bestie then theo ther ever was. My old bff was secretive, a liar, and ha horrible mood swings. She had a lot of great qualities too, but I'm just worried if anything will be remotely the same. She was my best friend, but I've kind of moved on. I still will befriends with her but not really bffs.. I'm also one of her only friends. She has like two others besides me. How do I handle this? Should I stick with her even though I don't really want to?
hey!
In my opinion, coming out of rehab, she will expect you to be there for her and for someone to help her get her life back on track. i know she might have put you through a lot of pain, but i think you should help her. Yes! if you don't want to be her best friend, just tell her. tell her that at this point you can't trust her enough for her to be your best friend and that you should take things one at a time. But at the same time, tell her you guys can still be friends and that you will help her if she needs it. will she be hurt? probably. will she hate you? No! if she is good person, which i know she is, she will understand and she will appreciate all the help you can give considering her situation. who knows maybe in the long run, you might learn to trust her again. just maybe!
GOOD LUCK
BYE! HOPE I HELPED
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