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so some may think this is trashy, but it's one of the things that really turns me on .. hickeys OR even just kissing the neck.

i've only gotten a hickey once, and it was just me and this guy having fun and nothing else came of it but when he was kissing my neck and sucking on it .. it felt so unbelieveably good and turned me on so much.

now, there is this guy .. and i really want him to kiss my neck or give me a hickey somewhere other than my neck so it's not obvious and trashy, but i don't really know how to hint or tell him to do it. i think it would sound dumb saying hey kiss my neck or my inner thigh or anything like that!!

AND .. what are you suppose to do when he is doing this? i was so inexperienced at the time that i had gotten my first one so i basically just layed there but with this guy .. i want him to know i'm enjoying it and i don't really just want to lay there.

Haha! I was in the same situation as you. I loved my neck getting kissed but had no way to tell my boyfriend. I have two suggestions: one (this is the one that I did) is just to tell him. I know that sounds super awkward, but then your guy will know that that's something you really like and he'll keep it in mind and keep doing it. If he feels stong enough about you, he won't care that you asked: the second thing is that you could do it to him until he maybe picks up on the fact that you want him to do it to you!
As for places, I reccommend getting hickies on your rib cage, basically right where the bottom of your bra hits. They're easy to cover and it feels good to get kissed there!
And as for doing things, talk dirty to him, run your fingers though his hair, kiss him back (if that's not too body bending), moan (lol, guys like that), or if you feel really comfortable around this guy, pul on your nipples or rub your clit or whatever.

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