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So ive recently decided to let my boyfriend have anal sex with me. This will be the first time that ive EVER done ANTYHING like this. Nothing has ever gone inside my butt. (lol).
So i was just wondering, what should i be worried about? Any horror storys?
Anything i can do to prepare for this?
Im a little worried so any advice would be great.
We already have lube btw.
1. "Anal sex can be painful the good news is anal sex only hurts if you’re doing it incorrectly. If anal sex ever hurts, you should stop or take the stimulation back a notch. Remember--the key to anal pleasure is relaxation and lubrication!
2. Most people find that when they start exploring butt play, their anal health improves. All muscles benefit from the increased circulation that results from exercise and relaxation.
3. Although you’re likely to encounter some poo in your anal sex career, it’s probably going to be a lot less than you imagined. Most anal play engages only the first few inches of the anus and rectum, which do not store feces. Most people find that a thorough wash in the shower does the trick for removing any surface grime.
1. Relax: Bend-over beginners need to learn to relax the sphincter muscles that ring the anal opening. Learning to relax these muscles can take time.
2. Communicate: It’s important that the person being penetrated control the pace of play. Nothing should ever be forced or hurried in anal play, and partners should stay in close communication about what feels good and what doesn’t.
3. Use lots of lube: Don’t skimp on lube! The fragile lining of the anus does not lubricate sufficiently for pleasurable anal sex. Add more lube than you think you need.
4. Go slow: Especially at first, when your toy or finger first enters the anus, your partner will need some time to adjust to the sensation. Check in about what feels good."
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:) Thank you so much!
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