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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

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18/f

I'm not asking whether to have sex with this guy it's just concerns with my body parts that i'm worried about.

this guy has only had sex with one other girl, someone he was with for over 2 years and he hasn't done anything sexual with anyone else. the thing that worries me is when we start becoming sexual and my vagina is different, my boobs are different, my whole body is different obviously! i'm just worried that he will be kind of weirded out at first because of what he was so use to with his girlfriend. everyone is different, i understand that but it just makes me a bit self-conscious because what if he's like woah her vagina "lips" are so big, or just things like that?

has anyone else had this worry and a bit self-conscious? i'm comfortable with my body .. and i do have confidence it's just that one concern thats bothering me.

Hi :)

You're absolutely right, everyone is different! Guys are very visual, so trust me, even if you have flaws, they'll be too concerned with the fact that they are seeing your boobs, or close to 'getting some'. I thought the same thing about myself. I'm VERY self conscious about my body. I'm on the chubbier side, so I'm not as 'perfect' as the celebrities on tv and whatnot. But if the person you'll have sex with is mature, and cares for you emotionally as well, he won't care. He'll love you for you and for the woman you are (at the moment of getting intimate). Just relax and enjoy, because when you're self conscious they'll know and it will kinda ruin the mood. Good luck!!

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