HEYY im THE RACK !!
im 16F and livin it up in Rhode Island. I love to just kickback and relax. I think i'm pretty mature for my age and have a interesting view on life.
iv been on this site for years, but i just made this new column. so i've prolly given you advice before, i love giving my opinion, i love helping ppl with what they dont know, so feel free to ask!! =]
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Girl #1 is 20 years old, sexy, smart, ambitious, wild/spontaneous and is a 'country girl' if u will. I feel a connection with her and a spark when i am around her that i havent felt in a long time. But, she is very dramatic and is constantly angry at me 4 things which are either not my fault or are just blown completely out of proportion. every week she finds something else 2 b angry with me about that i really dont deserve and then she will treat me like crap for days, making me grovel at her feet. I really am the nicest guy on the planet and would do anything 2 make her happy, yet she constantly tells me that i don't care about her and am selfish. She has many emotional issues and is now seeking help so hopefully she will begin 2 c me for who I really am. But 2 weeks ago, she called things off with me in order 2 try 2 get back with her ex boyfriend. So, being fed up, I went out and met someone else (girl #2). Girl #2 is 21 years old, and is the sweetest person on the face of the earth! She is very much like me (an engineer, smart, wacky sense of humor, very caring and loving, sensitive etc) and she is also very beautiful. I end up going on a few dates with her and hooking up with her (she was a virgin before me). Then girl 1 decides that things won’t work between her and her ex anymore so she comes back 2 me. So I tell girl 2 that I still have feelings for girl 1, and I tell girl 1 about girl 2. Girl 1 is very angry, but is willing 2 work things out. Girl 2 is upset, but still wants 2 b with me. The thing is I really like both of them and could see myself being with either one of them. My dilemma is that I don’t want to hurt girl 1 in her time of need (since she is not emotionally stable) and I don’t want 2 just up and leave girl 2 since I took her virginity. I have put a lot of effort into making girl 1 believe that I wasn’t going 2 just leave her, and now I am contemplating doing just that. Which should I choose? Booth are viable relationship options. (link)
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You should definitely choose girl 2!
You should of thought before you took her VIRGINITY!
but not only should you stay with her for that reason but also because you sound much more positive when you talk about her.
Girl 1 doesn't sound too pleasant, you are probably young as well and ask yourself, do you really need someone who is emotionally unstable in your life right now? maybe as a friend, but not as a girlfriend. She needs to work things out with herself before she can be with someone else.
And she went back to her ex and now is crawling back to you, doesn't that make you feel like a back-up, do you really want to be an extra in her little movie ? Girl 2 probably has her feelings invested in you now, i would say pick her but take things slower this time around, you just told her about girl 1, i think that definitely affects the relationship a bit. But go with the girl who is more suitable for your life right now. I think when it comes to picking who you want to be with, you have the right to be selfish and think about what is better for you, not them.
So who is better for you? [ btw i really wanna know who you pick, so let me know ] =]
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This is some really great advice! You're right, I am young (22) and can't really afford to date someone who is emotionally unstable/taxing at the moment. I should worry less about how girl 1 feels and focus more on what I need. I'm going to choose girl 2 and I'm really excited about it! I really enjoy her company and she's actually nice to me (unlike girl 1). Thanks for the advice and the nudge in the right direction!
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