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Hi! I'm Dani, I am twenty years old. I was attending college but took some time off. Like any other twenty year old girl, I love fashion, partying and going out with my friends. I moved to California for awhile, but decided home was better for the moment :-) Recently i've learned that things don't always work out the way you would hope, & I would love to help people through this beautiful disaster we call LIFE.

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over four months. i thought we were happy, but recently i found out he doesn't know what he wants anymore or whether he's even happy. in the beginning, we used to talk for hours on end. gradually things changed. he's never had a serious relationship before and i think that maybe he's afraid to be a part of one. when we're together, things are really good... but it seems like the closer we get, the farther he wants to push me away. i really care about him and his happiness. i suggested a break so he would have time to sort his thoughts and feelings. if you have questions, so you can get a better understanding, let me know. otherwise, what is your take on this? he's really sweet and he's a good guy.

Well at least he realizes that he is hurting you by keeping you in "limbo" about the relationship. There could be external problems going on aside from you guys that is causing the behavior. It stinks but if you don't come to a solution soon together it will make it worse :( The best thing I can tell you is to keep try talking, and make sure he knows how you feel about everything.

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(Rating: 5) I have asked him and he says the only things he knows is that he isn't happy with the way he's been acting (like he's disappointed in himself), that he wishes he was acting differently, and he doesn't want to hurt me.
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