Member Since: January 22, 2010
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Last Update: January 22, 2010
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15/f
I've been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months. We were friends before that. His ex was one of my friends. She cheated on him a few times and all that. He deserved better. But now she claims she loves him, but she also likes another guy. She's not making any sense. She said she loved him but she also hates him, for asking me out and so on. But the thing is, she said she's totally fine with me, she only feels bad for me cause I'm dating him. I know I shouldn't let this stuff get to me. But it does, and you can't really help it.
So he is the sweetest guy to me and I know he cares about me. He was my first kiss but now its like weird. Only because it's not like a normal fast kiss anymore. He's more into it. I don't have a problem with it but I just don't like it at school. I don't know if that is normal or weird. At first it was weird with hugging so much at school. I didn't find it that bad but the kissing is just so different. I don't really know what I should about it. Like when we hang out outside of school, its totally fine, but I don't know why its bugging me in school. What should I do? (link)
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I am no expert or anything - This is unprofessional advice! I am twenty years old.
I have been in a relationship with my fiance for five years, and we have a four year old son. Take it or leave it!!
I just want to say that if he will do it to your friend, he will do it to you. Even if you don't cheat on him -- there are so many reasons to leave or be with some one. So, just know that most likely, you have a guy that will ask your friend out if y'all are over or arguing.
On the kissing thing, Its not bad to kiss in public. Its also not weird for you to feel uncomfortable inside school. That's the point - school. I feel you on that one. My fiance understands that I like to be professional if I am at school or work. He also respects that.
Try to talk it out with him and tell him that you are uncomfortable expressing passion in certain places, and that you would like to be treated like a lady - not a rebound fling!!
Talk to me though, hope all goes well ;p
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thanks lol its not really like the whole asking me out after his ex. whole different story but thanks for trying
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