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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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k this is super complicated.
first off, ive been on birth control for about 3 months.... k so on to the situation!:
so theres this guy who ive known for about 14 years, hes my brothers best friend and his family and my family are REALLY good friends, but anyways, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, hes 20 btw, well me and him ended up having sex. the first time we did it it was october 31st, i got my period after that though. then we didnt have sex untill december 23 ( we didnt use a condom ) then after that we had sex on january 2ed, we also didnt use a condom, but he pulled out before he came. k so now on top of that, my last period was on 12/19 and it only lasted on day (not normal!) but im thinking that was probably because i have just barely began taking birth control pills 3 months ago.. and now i was supposed to get my period a like a week ago, and i still havent gotten it, and im REALLLY scared that im pregnant. im going to take a pregnancy test tomarow. OH and the worst part is that the guy ended up being a jerk even though we basically grew up together and our families are really close, he doesnt talk to me, and told his friend which is my friend also that he didnt wanna mess with me anymore, and i havent talked to him in like a week, so if i am idk how hes gonna react, and i really wouldnt know how to tell my parents, and im scared if i am to tell them cause my parents will FLIP cause this guy wasnt even my bf, =/ ughh i don know what to do. and i don knowww about abortion, thats scary to me, and i don knowww!!!! ughhh helpppppp!!!!?
Well dont tell him until you know for sure. And if you are talk to him, you guys will have to figure this out together. if your going to get an abortion you dont nesisarily have to tell your parents. You can go to your local Plan ParentHood and everything there is confidential. If you guys deicide to keep the baby i would suggest you both sitting down with eachothers parents seperately and talking to them about it... But dont worry about all this yet you period could just be late or messed up from your birth control! Let me know if you need anything else!
Hope i helped =]
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