I'm an ordinary person who likes the following things: writing, helping people, movies, reading, jogging, animals and teaching.
I don't like: stress, confusion, people who do not drag their weight and laziness.
My good qualities (I think) are patience, open-mindedness and the ability to write and speak in public with ease.
My weaknesses (I'm always working on these!) are the tendency to take on too much, from time to time; the tendency to not get enough sleep and my eating habits could be a lot better than they are now.
I will try to answer questions in an honest, open way, involving what I think is common sense. If I don't think I can answer a question well, I will skip over it.
Go ahead....try me! Ask me a question!
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I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with him, yes, he apologized like any guy would but things escalated and ended so wrong, we got so mad at eachother that i just started crying so hard. he said he wanted to go to bed but i wanted to keep talking until he said isnt he allowed to leave until i was satisfied with this conversation. so i got so mad i just texted back "BYE!" and he didnt even answer back. so i have 2 questions: some of my friends think he likes me and that i was the reason he went, for me. do you think thats true? and, did i lose him for good, if so how do i get him back? this whole thing was over a stupid girl! i regret ever opening my mouth but i thought i should have told him how i felt seeming as we tell eachother everything and we've been best friends since 3rd grade. any help, please.. im desperate. (link)
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I would wait a day and do nothing. After a day, if he hasn't called or texted you, call or text him and say: "I feel really bad about what happened the other night. We've been friends since 3rd grade. Can we just back it up before all that happened and just start over?" And see what he says. At least you would have opened it up for discussion. Sometimes it is best to not re-hash stuff again and just agree to go on with a clean slate. See if you can get him to agree to that. Good luck.
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thanks, we talked and i feel things are really working out again, things are still a little iffy but we got eachothers backs, i know thats a fact. thanks again for your time, it really means alot:)
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