Member Since: January 5, 2010
Answers: 6
Last Update: January 6, 2010
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I received a e-mail on My Space page from a lady who wanted to be added to my friends list, so I did. After e mailing back in forth she asked I knew who she was. I didn't, after she gave me some hints I finally figured out she was my old gf from high school, 30 yrs ago. After a couple e mails she told me she just got out of an abusive marriage 5 months ago.The questions I have are , What do I do now?Why after all those yrs she looked for me? What is she looking for from me? How do I handle her after an abusive marriage? I've been single for 17yrs and must admit it sparked some old memories. (link)
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Well i have to be honest i don't understand your situation, but well i think you have to talk to her calmly and help her out, give her some closer, it was just 5 months ago. After a few more months or when she starts showing she is comfortable around any men, start talking to her more then "just a friend" Make her feel more comfortable with you as in a relationship type if you were looking for that. Usually some abused people need closure after it happens, even five months, it's better to start now then later, because it can live with people for a long while. That's wha ti would think is the right thing to do, good luck.
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My situation is I wasn't sure how to handle this . I really never talked to anyone that's been thru an abusive relationship and I don't want to say or do the wrong thing. I did tell her I'm here for her.Right now we are just e mailing each other, she said she's not ready to talk about it, and I'm not pushin the issue.
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