I hope to help those in need in life lessons, love, friendships, and hardships.
It's a tough life to live for anyone, either in their work world, love life, their children, their money...."There is always Hope"....and I aim to help those find that hope and successfully get passed the woes of the world :-)
I carry a degree in Information Technology, but have also taken previous courses in Child Psychology and General Psychology to gather an understanding of our emotions and how we deal with them as humans.
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Uh im gonna shorten this as much as I can but i think more detail would give me better answers so... bare with me.
Me and my best friend met when we were 12. She moved in next door. I liked her in that puppy dog kinda thing ya know and she liked me to. But nothing ever happen. About 7th grade we dated for...3 days i think. She was like its awkward your my best friend my brother whatever. I was like ok its cool. We kissed on a truth or dare thing, both of our first kisses.
So 11th grade high school were 17. Shes dated this kid named *bob* for about 4 years. They break up on and off, he treats her bad, yea. Well i liked her this whole time and it was terrible, picking her up from his house crying at like 2 am. Hanging out with her and shed be like can u drop me off at *bobs* or come pick me up.
Well they broke up for the final time and we started talking serious again for about 2 weeks. then she broke it off and went back to *bob*. Im gonna input here that i was basically her best friend and she told me everything, from sexual to school. Thats hard to hear btw, but i was always there because if she was happy, i was...yea.
Well family crap came up and she moved across the country, in January. We visited her during...July? We hung out the whole time she blew off her bf for me and everything and then after about a week we went back home.
So we txted, aimed, just talked to each other the whole time. She came down about 2 weeks ago to visit us for Christmas. When she got here she told me she always knew i was the one and she always liked me. Surprised me but I told her I still liked her to. So we chilled together all week laid in bed, cuddled, watched movies, all that good stuff.
2 days before she left she said she had a headache so i was rubbing her head. Then uh things got a little hotter and ended up with me fingering her. The next day we talked about it and she was like i let my hormones take control but the kiss during it was all me. Next night were cuddling together and were getting a little hot, but shes stopped my hand once or twice, and her family decides its time to leave. I kiss her goodbye and shes moving back in may and is like im gonna wait for you when i come home ur all mine.
Ok I really am sorry for the long story and if i get no help i completly understand. But my question.
1. WTF do i do?
2. She was seriously into me, i turned her on from rubbing her back, thats not possible.. I know. So that means it wasnt where I was rubbing its the fact that it was me. right?
3. Was I wrong to do that if i knew it was just hormones. Like she kissed my neck at one point, girls only do that if hormones are involved.
Any advice at all is amazing because that means you read all this crap about some random person and you cared. Your amazing, or just really bored. (link)
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I'm gonna go with the really amazing comment.
I get on this thing everyday scoping out the questions, and I'm choosy. I dont answer just random things...
You have a serious issue...and from the woman's point of view, you guys really have it bad for each other, but have kept this odd distance based on what 'she wanted'. What a great guy you are to be there on stand by, you know?
I watched this movie today where this guy was really into this hot chic, but she didn't dig him like he did her, but told her he'd swim across the ocean just to be with her...la la la..he met someone else on his little journey, and he kept talking about this chic, right...it took him a while, but he saw that this other woman was his true love.
Point being is that you guys have the potential to be each other's true love...no more of this Bob on and off junk.
You guys got hot and heavy because its what you really wanted..both you and her...not just you.
Women run on their emotions, and it's obvious she cares about you if she let you get that far..and if I were her, I'd want you to try harder, and focus on what you could do to show your love and how much you want to be with her...that is, if its truly what you want.
You have a long history together, and you know her ins and outs and her ups and downs...You were best friends first, and it's a great foundation for a healthy relationship.
If you can put all that BOB stuff in the past and see if she can too, I can see you guys doing really well together.
Keep me posted...May is not too far away...I hope it works out.
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yea thats one thing about it is we have talked about everything, more her telling me stuff than her telling me. Ive heard alot of things about what BOB did right and wrong and how he was in bed whatever. The other night I was thinking, I wonder if BOB did better his first time with her.
But I mean im cool with whatever she did in the past, if its truly in the past
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