Member Since: January 3, 2010
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Last Update: January 3, 2010
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I don't like how I feel sometimes about my ex. He's my best friend and I know that we are meant to be friends. I don't want to like him as more than that, but the feelings haven't gone away. He broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said that his feelings weren't there anymore.
I know that he isn't right for me. I've known it all along, but over the course of our time together I slowly had stronger feelings for him until I really did love him. But certain things about us together were never ideal. Basically, I loved him and imagined my life together with him, but there was always a small amount of doubt. All the same, it didn't make it any easier after the break up. I felt like I lost the love of my life. I became extremely depressed for a couple of weeks.
We stayed best friends immediately after the break up. It's worked out well for the both of us. It's like he said, we can love eachother without all the relationship stuff. So now, I give him advice about the girl he likes and he teases me about my crushes. But sometimes, the thought of him with that girl together, it turns my stomach :/. And I know I can't avoid this feeling, eventually if something does happen between them, it could only get worse.
So does anyone know a way that I could deal with this? Anything would help. Thanks (link)
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Honestly, it's really important to be honest... You should tell him how you really feel, it might make things akward at first, but in the end you will feel better knowing that he knew how you felt! Good luck:)
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Well, he knew I still loved him when we broke up. But as time has gone by I have not told him about my feelings anymore because the way I see it, his feelings are gone so why should I keep throwing all these feelings around? So I'm letting him believe that there are no feelings. He has no reason to feel sorry for me. But I do need to move on eventually. It will be for the best I think.
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