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I am all about being myself.. straight up I'm the realist person. I'm not fake. ..fake people are my pet peeve.... I have a blog about my daily life..celebs and photography etc the link is : www.lovely-soe.blogspot.com ... I want to help teenagers who are younger then me to not make mistakes that can be avoided. thanks for reading :)

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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help!

omgg i wish i could talk to you on aim or something about this to tell you how people are when you get in highschool in DEPTH but we'll settle for this :) .
i'm a junior now so I've pretty much seen everything in highschool.. something happens in the transitioning period from 8th grade to 9th grade... people start being what i like to call FAKE...(which is what your little friend is)... some of the people who want to fit in act like they dont know you anymore...like they will just walk by you like they never used to know you in middle school. it's saddening and funny all at the same time.

some peoples personalities began to change too..some dont..I saw this stuff all the time as a 9th grader and even a 10th grader..it's really annoying ... but it's life. people change..people act fake..and the best thing for you to do is to DROP the fakes and find FOREVER FRIENDS.

i know i have a forever friend in a friend of mine named dianna...we've been friends since 7th grade and we're still the same with each other.

you're "friend" is ridiculous and she has absolutely NO respect for you..she doesnt care about you (in my opinion) im sorry to be so blunt but i just dont think she does because she tells you she cant hang out..then WRITES ABOUT HER HANGING OUT WITH OTHER PEOPLE ON THE MOST NOT-PRIVATE PLACE ON THE WORLD----THE INTERNET--MYSPACE..WHERE SHE KNOWS SHE HAS YOU AS A FRIEND. and she moved you off her top (meaning you're not her top friend at all anymore)..when someone walks by you in the hall and doesnt speak to you..(AND theyre supposed to be you're friend.) then you know you need to just move on and find new friends



**SORRY TO WRITE SO MUCH BUT THIS IS ALWAYS A HOT TOPIC FOR ME***

You need to keep the christmas present you got her....STOP contacting her trying to hang out with her..take her off your top and confront her. tell her how she has completely changed ..tell her everything you just typed here..be HONEST or youll regret it ..even in senior year you'll regret not telling her how you felt.... cut the bitch off lol..stopppp contactinggg herr and making yourself look stupid bc you're obviously a really nice girl who doesnt deserve such a bad "friend"
if you need any other highschool advice you can add me on myspacee myspace.com/grow_upp

when people treat you a certain way...you need to stop talking to them, drop them.
btw i think im gonna start a site about highschool stuff ecspecially for the little freshmen.

goodluck girl i hope you find out what youre gonna do :D

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(Rating: 5) Oh my god that was really good thanks:)
I will definately take your advice!
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