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This seriously just happened to me like two days ago, haha. And I've seen it happen to most of my friends. My advice for you is to first, be completely honest with your friend if she doesn't already know that you like him. Try talking about it with her. And my opinion is that friends are more important, they stay with you longer you know? This guy could date you, and then end up leaving you within the next week. And you probably won't have your friend to talk to. I suggest working it out with her and if she says it's okay that you like him or ya'll date or whatever, then that's your choice whether or not to take that route and date him, cause you could risk losing your frienship with this person, even though they say it's okay, she might be lying to you just so she won't upset you and keep ya'll from dating. To me, friends are more important than boyfriends, they last longer. You need to decide who means more to you, the boy or your friend. It's not easy at all, I've learned that. I spent nights staying up thinking about what I'm supposed to do, but I chose my friend because she means more to me than a boy. I know I talk a lot :/ ha sorry. But when I read your question I just wanted to help you sooo bad because I know exactly how you feel. Please consider my advice and if you need any more help just let me know. Just remember, think about how your friend feels, it's the worst thing to be only thinking of what's best for you. I hope this helped(:
-Ray
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