I'm Abby, a 21-year-old college student with way too much time on her hands, thus resulting in my participation in sites like this. I'm currently a sophomore, and double majoring in Creative Writing and Psychology. My career goals are to make a living as a writer, and to work at Disney World. I have many random hobbies, such as reading, writing, listening to music, playing video games, watching anime, etc. I'm a huge nerd. I'm a tomboy, weird, and opinionated. I think that's about it.
As for this column, obviously it exists for me to give advice. I'm not the most qualified person in the world--I'll be the first person to admit that I've lived a rather sheltered life, and I'm not much of an expert on anything. (I'm one of those people who's read about everything, but hasn't actually experienced a damn thing.) But I like to think I've picked up at least a little bit of wisdom from the experiences I HAVE had, plus some knowledge from my endless curiosity. So if I can share that with somebody and help them out, then awesome, right?
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I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.
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The thing about love is that people expect it to be thrilling and passionate like it is in the beginning all the time, the way relationships are in movies. But real love isn't like that. And a lot of people, when the passion starts to fade a little and they start getting more comfortable in the relationship, they get bored and look for someone else they can feel that spark with. Which is really sad, because that's the point in the relationship where REAL love actually starts. And then people end up doing just exactly what you described, and jumping from person to person without ever staying with anyone because nobody can ever give them that "new love" feeling permanently.
Either it's that, or you're just not ready to settle down yet, in which case I would recommend dating around for a while without getting involved in anything serious until you're ready to commit. Hell, that might be a good idea anyway.
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wow never thought of it that way lol your awesome.
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