I hope to help those in need in life lessons, love, friendships, and hardships.
It's a tough life to live for anyone, either in their work world, love life, their children, their money...."There is always Hope"....and I aim to help those find that hope and successfully get passed the woes of the world :-)
I carry a degree in Information Technology, but have also taken previous courses in Child Psychology and General Psychology to gather an understanding of our emotions and how we deal with them as humans.
I also have my own travel business EGVacations.com and I care for my 4yr old son, (I have 4 children; 18, 16, 12, and 4) so the range in ages allows me to see all aspects of what children are going through. Whew!!
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I have a crush who doesn't like me. He doesn't even talk to me. And I'm just too shy to talk to me. He is part of the "gang". And the gang makes fun of people, like me. My Crush won't even add me on facebook. Theres nothing really that I love about him, except that he's handsome. Not really handsome. But Joe Jonas is way handsomer. :) If my crush won't even talk to me, add me on facebook and be nice to me. Is he a good choice? Because I only like him because hes handsome. And I also want to stop liking him. There are other guys in my school who are kinder than him but not so handsome. Any ways I could stop liking him? Im really obsessed by the way. If I see a letter of his first name...I go crazy! I also tend to stare at him a lot (which was last year) but now I hardly look at him. I don't show that I like him. Just so he likes me more. But seriously I love him!! (link)
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Ahhh, to be young and have a crush...
Well, don't beat yourself up, because this is so very normal...I will assume you are in your teens, so yeah, absolutely normal.
I used to have a crush on my neighbor and boy was it crazy mad! I knew it could never be, because he was like way older than me, but man, I dreamt about it..hahah.
Anyway, as I grew out of that phase, its neat to look back and just see how I could possess such strong feelings for someone that had absolutely no interest in me. In your position, you have the same thing, but not only is it unrealistic for you two to be together, but he is part of a group that ridicules you and demeans who you are.
This is where a line is drawn. He wont add you on FB or acknowledge you, so there is a good chance that if you ever built up the confidence to talk to him, he would ignore you, only to not be ridiculed by his gang members, you know?? Guys in their young state are not out to find out who they can fall in love with. they are about being cool, or looking for a quick booty call from a random girl so they can brag to their buddies.
I know it's going to be hard, but for your own benefit of not being hurt or dissed, merely look at this guy as a cutie or however you see him, and that's it...
You have to see things for how they are, not how you imagine them in your mind. It's hard to explain, but when you take a reality check and look at your situation from 'outside the box', you would be able to see what I'm talking about and see how silly it is to obsess over someone.
If by chance, you actually end up trying to talk to him, try to be optimistic, and be ready for anything. If he diss's you, then just say to yourself, Okay, I'm not shocked and now I know how it's going to be.
At least, when you look back on this one day, you can say, hey, I put myself out there and tried.
Good Luck!! Keep me posted!
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