I hope to help those in need in life lessons, love, friendships, and hardships.
It's a tough life to live for anyone, either in their work world, love life, their children, their money...."There is always Hope"....and I aim to help those find that hope and successfully get passed the woes of the world :-)
I carry a degree in Information Technology, but have also taken previous courses in Child Psychology and General Psychology to gather an understanding of our emotions and how we deal with them as humans.
I also have my own travel business EGVacations.com and I care for my 4yr old son, (I have 4 children; 18, 16, 12, and 4) so the range in ages allows me to see all aspects of what children are going through. Whew!!
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hey..i been struggling for 5 months after my boyfriend broke up with me..i been really sad and dont know what to do :(...
here is my story am sorry if its too long..
ok we we lasted 2 yrs and 2 months going out but then he left to the dominican republic and he cheeted on me overdere with another girl...he posted pictures on myspace and when he came back i confronted him about it..he told me that was his cousin..but i actually got to talk to the girl and she told me that he was her boyfriend.my heart just dropped...i cant believe he actually did this to me because he loved me and he did alot of things for me...now he is here and he tells me to go to his house in the night so his parents wont see me ..but its just to have sex..i dont even want to go because i dont like doing those types of things with him...but its been 5 months since he broke up with me and my heart still hurts..its like its carrying a heavy pain..i cant seem to move on,its just hard for me, i try to let it go and not think about him but its hard, and no i dont go out because i hardly have friends here.am always stuck in my house.but can someone please tell me wat to do or do you guys have a similar story similar to mines..i appreacited .thanks :) (link)
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First and foremost, you should not just try to forget it and move on...You have to look at your situation and see what you have learned from it...it's what's going to help you as you do move on and move forward.
Ok, he lied, he played you and insulted your intelligence. It hurts like hell because you loved him. Now he wants to use you for sex and hide you from the parents. Do not sell yourself short. Say to yourself that you are better than this game. Look at him as someone that is not going to find his happiness soon while he tries to carry on this relationship with you and this other woman. I know that if you were to give in and go over and give him what he wants, you will regret, and yet have another pain to deal with. He would be the one to benefit from it and not you. You will suffer.
It is hard to pull out from under the covers and see the good things around you if you want to keep dwelling on what this unworthy person has done to you. You ultimately will have to 'choose' to do other things to help you move on. You wont forget what's happened because it will be listed as a learning experience when you look back at it one day.
Dont give up on love, it is out there...
I thought I was giving up on it from all the hell I went through with my horrible cheating and lying ex, but love found me unexpectedly, and from my exeriences, I was not afraid of letting love happen, I was able to welcome it.
Good luck as you grow from this experience!!
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