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Ok i now i usually give da advice, but when i give advice to myself bout guys i usually end up pickin the wrong thing but when i do it for other people i give da right advice and they dont have any regret it so please help.
Ive told my bf (19 year old) that i feel like he dont love me anymore because he never talks to me and when i email him he dont email me back he says he has a lot of emails like a 100 or some sh** and deletes all of dem and when we do talk much we have a short converstation unless i contiune it and it always takes him bout 2 mins to answer. He said hmm am i sure its him losing love and not me i wanted to slap him cause i love him so much and dont wont to lose him but on the other hand it doesnt seem like he loves me anymore. We've been dating for 5 months now. BTW im 14. Anyway i screamed at him tellin him why would he ask that stupid question and that i loved him dearly i told him he hated me and he said no he didnt but i feel he does so i ran off and he didnt come after me this happened yesterday so idk. I tried dumping him about 3 weeks ago and he made me feel guilty about it and its so easy to make me feel guilty about it cause i love him so much. Tell me what i should do!
Q1:Does he still love me? If so why is he acting like this?
Q2:What should i do?
Thank you :(
Jay (link)
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Well, there are a few things you should take into consideration...
You've only been dating 5 months, and I know love kicks in when you feel it, so i'm sure it's love, but if he starts to pull away, simply give him just a little space to see what might be going on. He might have a few issues he's trying to deal with. But don't let him feel like you are being distant; you have to let him know that you sense things are different and just reassure him that you are there if he needs someone to talk to. Never over-crowd a man, no matter how long you've been with him, they all do the same thing...they tend to go into this cave, u know? like in their own little world where they are brainstorming and sometimes they dont pay attention to who they are affecting.
The space wont hurt too much, just as long as he's not showing interest in another woman.
Then think back to when you dumped him, was he really bothered by it? If so, do you think he might be afraid you'll do it again. Perhaps he might feel things are unsteady....
Go with this for a while and see what comes from it.
Keep me posted!
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