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Q: and here I am again. A New guy. I work with him and hes 22. I'm 18. We only work together for about 2 weeks. Hes really quiet and shy.
On thursday while we were loading (Picking up ppl to bring back to the cruise ship) We talked in the van a little bit, and he kidna opened up. And then he like stroked my chin. when getting back into the van my supervisor is like "Go sit with your boyfriend." ????....and then after work..he came up to me with arm wide open and gave me a 1 minute hug. On Monday I got to see him again..and he didnt say anything. He just looked at me and raised his eyebrows like usual. (You kno when someone looks like they have sumthin to say) well he looked like that. And right b4 work class my supervisor (woman)..she says "Go get your boyfriend, ______"....OMG why me?..and after work i ask him wheres my hug?..and he gave me a cheap 99 cent hug..WAT?...I'm so confused..and one of my other co-workers told me that he does have a 4yr old child.
Divine...

okay for starter your story kind made me laugh some " cheap 99cent hug" that was funny.

however there are three reasons that I think of and that you listed your self

1. maybe shy
2. maybe wondering how you feel or react to him having a child
3. don't think he got a chance cause he got a child

so you have a choice you can either
make the move fisrt in let him know that it okay you got a kid "if you don't mind the fact that he got a kid" and will like to go out some time.
or you can just let it play-out and just wait to see what it is that he is tryin to do.

Divine

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&
happy new years

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I am me a average gril just like you I have this passion of wanting to help others so I came across this site I hope to seek the answer that you are looking for. I been a writer since I was 6 or maybe 7 started of with songs then traveled on into writing poetry I still do those things, however the reason why I want to become an advice columnist cause their is always someone coming to me and telling me what is going on and ask me how do they handle it I be amazed at how I help them and I start to notice that this happen to me more then once and I should make a carrer out of it. So I been told that I have a gift and if it true then I perfer to share it with you.....

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