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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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you already have finals? and its ok i understand. and thanks for the great advice :) but there is a problem ..i like this other kid but his cusin doesnt likes me because she thinks i whent out with him while he was with his girl..and the kids cusin is really good friend with his girl..welll they broke up so lets just say ex girlfriend..i just dont want to go out with some ones whos cusin dont like me because then thats going to make things kinda uncofortable..otherwise the other kid i do like him ....yesterday he sended me like 4 text messages and since he noticed i didnt reply he sended me a message thru myspace..am confused :(

I think you should go after who you like more. Relax and think things through. Do you like the first guy more, the one who texts you all the time? Or do you like the kid whose cousin does not like? Look, not everyone is going to like you, and even more people won't like you AT FIRST. If you honestly like this guy and are just avoiding the situation because of his cousin, don't let that get in your way. It seems like he doesn't care what his cousin thinks! So why should you? And seriously, who knows, his cousin might end up liking you once she gets to know you. If he's a good guy, he'd tell his cousin to lay off and that you're a great girl and she should just get to know you before passing judgment. But I think for now, you need to figure things out. Figure out what your heart wants, or actually, WHO your heart wants. Imagine both guys were in a room and you had to pick one, no questions asked, no surrouding issues, just them two. Who'd you choose? Just relax and think, don't be too hard on yourself :)

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(Rating: 5) helped me alot :)
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