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Hi, I am Alison. Well I live in New York. I love helping people out and giving advice out to people. Fashion is my thing, so if you need any advice on that don't be afraid to ask = ]. I love getting messages for advice so feel free to ask me anything. I'm up to great oppurtunities in life. Ummm there isn't that much more to know about me!
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I really need help.
okay, so i have a bestfriend.
but theres so many problems.
i love her so much, its just like i cant live with or without her! whenever its just me and her, things are PERFECT. whenever someone else is around, she acts like im noone. im invisible. im a ghost. its horrible. like, i feel so clueless and helpless. noone understands how i feel.
please, please. someone help me? :(
Believe me, I understand completely what you are going through. When you are with her, shes a person you feel like you can't live without. You tell her everything and anything, and she always seems to be supporting you. But whenever your around other people, it's like everyone and anyone is more important than you. You kind of feel used in a way. The thing is, she is taking you for granted. You can live without someone but you choose not to, thats how everyone works! You need to tell her this and how your feeling, you don't deserve this. If she decides to make this a conflict when you confront her about this or just completely ignore it, then you really need to rethink your friendship with her. Just because when your with someone they are perfect does that mean they are worth all the pain you get when their around other people. I really do hope this friendship works out, but you need to know that you are worth more than how you are being treated by your friend. Never let someone tell you/ treat you like your nothing, because in the end, its just going to backfire on them. Just talk to her, she might not be realizing this, but if she ignores it, rethink the friendship completely! Neep any more help, ask me! (:*
(Rating: 5) Oh my,
Thank you so much ! :)