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Q: ok so last year, this gang of boys used to tease me about my skin color and gave me a nick name...bb black b!^@# ... i cried lots...and i wasn't a snitch so i didn't tell on them. well this year, this is what one guy said to me.. pretend my name is leslie. so this was a conversation on fb..commented on my closest friend's status...i have brown skin...why do they make fun of me?? i dont wana snitch on them...coz they will hate me even more. now i feel like running away. or going to my hometown where im safe with my family members :( help me please!! . .. ..and is it good for my friend to keep helping "boy" even if he made fun of me??

boy: im happy as long as that ugly bitch dies


girl two: what?!

boy: leslie (me, pretend im leslie the one who wrote this)

girl two: you seriously need help. =p

boy: she seriously needs to get hit by a car

girl two:. that\\\'s really mean :/ why would you say that?

boy: its harram, or sin to be that ugly

girl two: -_- have you looked in the mirror l8ly? haha jk! i'm joking ok.!! :s

boy: yeah i know what jk means ;)

girl two:^^ good.. :d

my close friend:....i don't know what to say....

girl one: boy....get a freakin life...your so freakin meannnnnnn

and no one can b as ugly as you..:p

boy: least im not in love with carl ;)

girl one: wtfffffff im not in luv with himmmmmm you freakin idiot!! you big mouthed asshole!! :p

my close friend: i'm with girl one!...she called you an asswhole n deserve it!!...(its for boy).....im jst too nice tht im still helpin you man!!


should i fight talk back?? .... and if i talk back, boy might dis me up :( so idk wat to say...
No I don't think you should fight back. Growing up I had a cousin who was puerto rican. Now we werent real cousins we have been close for ever since babies and our parents were good friends. Well people really thought we were cousins well because I was white and she was puerto rican they called us skunks. It hurt and was mean the way people talk and very unnecessary. I hope you can learn to ignore what people say to you it is iggnorant what they have said to you and people say it to make them self feel better.

Thanks so much....but what if this continues??

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Sweet_LiL_Angel
My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.

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