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17/f. okay so my best friend and i are alike in every way except when it comes to boys. she has had her share of crushes and sometimes the guys like her back, but no major relationships. i have had a few relationships, one lasting over a year, and many hook ups, but am not at all promiscuous.
getting to the point- my friend (mary) has had a family friend (kyle) for the longest time. her whole family is friends with his whole family, and mary and kyles younger sister and brother are friends too. recently i have been hanging out a lot with kyle when mary does. he is really cool and we flirt a lot. i dont know if its just how he is, or something else, but i am beginning to be interested in him. yesterday we went and saw a movie with me, mary, kyle, and their little sibblings. it was fun but obviously i didnt get any alone time with him and mary was between us the whole time. i talked to mary about how alike kyle and i are and she agreed and we jokingly talked about kyle and i being together, so i know she wouldnt be mad if we dated. and last night i texted kyle a smiley face and we started talking about the movie and other stuff. i know im going skiing with mary and kyle and their families in jan so what can i do before them to like flirt with him but without being too extreme. also what can i do to take us to the next level? i think he wouldnt be too opposed to it because he flirts back (link)
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Hmm... I think you need Mary to get you to the next level... If he doesn't make a move on his own and you make a move an it turns out he only likes you as a friend... then it will make skiing very uncomftrable. And yes, there are signs... but a lot of people like to flrit for fun, espeicaly with their friend's friends (me being one of them!)
If I were you I would tell Mary I think Kyle is cute. She would probably say something like "omg, you like Kyle?!?!" I would say "I don't know.... I just got out of a relationship" or "I don't know, I don't know him very well" and ask her about her opinion on the hypothetical situation of Kyle and I going out. If she seems to support it then ask her to find out for you what Kyle thinks about you. If Mary seems against then jsut pretend you are not interested. Say something like "I see, well I just thought he was cute" and change the subject and just get Kyle to give you his myspace and flirt there.
Another thing - do you have his myspace or facebook? Those are the best palces for casual flirting without any compromisation. And of course... keep text messaging him.
Good luck with Kyle,
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yeah i do have his facebook thanks!
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