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When I met him he was basically a prostitute. He was willing to sell himself to anyone for 50 dollars. I watched him do it. Later I convinced him that this was wrong and that he should not do that. I think he still does from time to time. He thought I was rich so he didn't try to charge me. Instead made me feel like I was important. He even moved in with me and became my best friend and secret lover. I guess with time he lost all hope of getting money out of me. Then one day he just up and left. Moved in with someone else. Told me it was platonic, but I soon learned that he was lying. He played a crazy game of roller coaster with me as all good players do. Kept seeing me the whole time he lived with this other person. He would even make plans for the two of us to travel together. Once he offered to pretend we were on our gay honey moon if I would buy us a vacation to Hawaii. He said often that he always wanted me to be there for him. Some of it was real. I mean he no longer thought I was rich. So he does care about me. I know that. But not as much as I care about him. When I met him I picked him up, brushed him off, and got him off to a better start in life. And he wanted to repay me. The thing is he has always lead a double life. The kind of double life that many gay or bisexual men have lead throughout history. Not being aloud to be with the person of their choice because society will shame them. So they hook up with someone more acceptable to society and then forget that they are living a lie. He will never change. So my question is...Do I tell this person that he has been "cheating" on them with me for their entire relationship? Or do I just walk away and let the chips fall where they may?
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It seems like you might want to tell the person that he has been "cheating" on them with you for the entire relationship because you want payback right? after all, you have done so much for this guy, and this is how he repaid you. That is really messed up, but I think that telling the person would be too much cuz it's their relationship. Let the person find out for themselves. it might be a good idea to just keep your distance like you have, that way you don't get caught up in all the drama. And who knows, sometimes when people try to tell others about their cheating boyfriends, they choose not to believe it. They think that there is something wrong with the person telling them about the cheating. Or maybe jealousy, or trying to steal their guy. But the thing is, you are not the one responsible for his mistakes. He should be man enough to know what the right thing to do is. The truth usually always comes out at some point somehow anyway. So i think that you should just forget about it all because its really not worth all the drama. At least you are out of it, the rest is left to him to figure out.
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I just want to make it clear that he was not a hooker when i met him. I found out AFTER he moved in with me that he was taking money from men for sex. So I didn't start dating a hooker...I let a new freind/buddy move in with me. He kept everything hidden from me. I found out on my own. Also I think she know's anyway. She just doesn't want to admit it. However, I haven't really removed myself from seeing him yet. I really just needed to vent. I don't want to stop seeing him. So maybe my question should be: What is wrong with me?.
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