I am a single mom of a three year old little girl who i am pushing to be te best person she can be. I am striving to find myself a literary agent so that the words i write dont die with me but change the lives of the people who read my work.
E-mail: jesswilliams06@verizon.net
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I have been with my husband for 12 years now. We've had some really great times but I've come to realize that he is more like a brother or a best friend to me. We aren't intimate much and we both seem to be satisfied with that. I don't feel any closeness between us that would indicate to me that our relationship was closer than brother/sister. I'm confused and am not sure what I should do? My feelings are strange and I'm beginning to worry about many things. I wonder if he still loves me and if he feels the same way about our relationship as I am beginning to. What do you think should go on? I don't have any idea on how to confront him about this situation. Should I consider divorce? (link)
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i dont think that divorce is your answer. after you have been with someone for so long they are supposed to become your best friend. think about it- people who can married because the sex is good usually end up divorcing months after the make their vows. so your husbabd being your best friend? probably not so bad. you have a committed man who you can confide in and whose always there for you. besides you can always try for a romantic evening or some kind of something to spice up your life (trying games or just something new or acting out a fantasy). you should confide in him though because he may not even be aware of what it is that you are feeling
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Best advice! You're right...he's not a BROTHER...he's a best friend. Thank you for opening my eyes to this...it's great information and I feel better about my relationship now
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