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I. AM. ME.
E-mail: DancingDoe
Gender: Female
Age: 26
Member Since: October 5, 2009
Answers: 7
Last Update: October 5, 2009
Visitors: 1766


My parents don't really like me because they think i am mean at times. Like what happened today was:
Mom accidentaly stepped on my foot
Me "why did you step on my foot?"
Mom "It was an accident do you even think i will do something like that? i never saw your foot, after bringing all your stuff near you, you ask me a question like this?"
me "I am sorry i just asked it came out of my mouth"
Mom "I can't take it anymore, there is too much fights going on at home, its so unpeaceful."
Me "Cry..and finds this website which will hopefully help me" (link)
I hate to say this first part, but been there, done that, got the scars to prove it... What you are dealing with is not easy, yet over time it gets better! Five things you need right now are a note pad, a diary, a cell phone, a pen, and faith. Leave notes for your parents saying 'I do love you, and I am sorry!' adding in any details you want.
Write all feelings/emotions in your diary, leaving it open on your bed. When you are feeling hurt by your parents don't imediately say any thing, yet go out of view an grab your phone. Call some one, even a church, or if desperate-an imaginary friend(don't scoff yet)... start the water works, and explain your feelings on the phone and loud enough for your parents to hear-preferably while in view at this point. I know it's hard, but I had to run away to save my own life, went through a few years of therapy, and hate when other kids are facing what I did. I wish you luck and will always be available to help out!


Rating: 4
THANKS SO MUCH....you tried to runaway? thats how i felt..but then i was like..where would i go..,how would i live..etc...and i have a problem...as soon as my parents make me mad..i react quickly. its like i have fast talking reactions. but i will try to stop that :) thanks!!




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