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this is distrubing..
I was at school last week and my friend who is 18 told me that lately she has been really horny and is thinking of having sex with her dog?! wth? I was extremely shocked and disgusted by this I didn't even know what to say or how to react is there anything I can say to her to talk her into some sense?! what the hell is she thinking?!
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Unless you ARE the friend and I've found myself in one of those situations where a person seeks advice for their "friend" even though the advice is really for them, I would suggest just coming right out and asking her if she was joking or not. She was pretty bold in making this statement to you, so feel free to be just as bold in your reaction.
Chances are, she's just kidding. Let's look at the facts here. Your friend was at school when she told you this. Now I don't know if this is high school or college, but both institutions are known for students doing and saying crazy things. Another thing to take into consideration is that we're talking about an 18 year old girl in school. Why would she need a dog to please her sexually? I'm sure there are plenty of students who'd be willing to give her a hand with her "problem." Lastly, if your friend was serious about this, why would she tell you at school? Why not at home, in your car, via email, on the phone, through a text, while the two of you are out shopping, etc.? I can think of a million places more appropriate for this kind of news than at school. Again, I think she's kidding!
If for some crazy reason she's not kidding, don't freak out. Yes, this is bizarre, but this girl is your friend. Open up the lines of communication and get to the bottom of this. Ask questions. Get some more info. Like I said, I'm sure there are other students who are into her. Ask her why she's not interested in exploring her sexuality with another human being. Maybe set her up on a date. The two of you can join some singles dating website and look for people for her on there. Also, your friend might be really down and feeling self conscious. Maybe take her out and treat her to a makeover. That could be fun!
Summary:
1, Find out if she's joking.
2. Remedy the situation.
3. Continue being friends.
Your friendship is what's most important here. Don't let social taboos or possible jokes affect how you feel about your friend.
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thanks and just so you know NO! it is NOT me that is just really really disgusting and I would NEVER even THINK of doing that plain gross as heck
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