Hey. I'm Seshlover.
I'm a completely dreamy/doesn't-know-what's-going-on girl who lives in her own head.
My life is way too busy, but I think I like it that way.
Nothing ever remains constant so I don't really know what to type here. I guess I will just tell you what I thought to seconds ago, lol: The only thing that has remained constant thru my life until today is that I am straight (but definitely NOT homophobic, I LOVE ANYTHING YAOI!!)..... And so utterly straight that if I were a guy, I would be gay!
I fell in love with this guy when I was 13 and am still in love, now this may have been 2 months ago or 7 years ago, or actually anywhere in the between, lol~ I don't know if I will ever get over him.
I write Romance stories and I am a part time Autuor under pseudonym
I am here to help anyone and everyone so please do not hesitate to ask me anything!
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Alright so there's this kid in two of my classes who's wicked cute, and I wanted to get to know him better. From what i've heard though:he'll flirt with any girl. But i have a feeling he's just one of those "wanna be" players, like he's the kind of guy that trys to act all cool at first when in reality he has no idea what he's doing :P. So i know when guys are flirts, they usually like girls that play hard to get or tease them. I've been doing that, but i want him to fall for me, not just think i'm a game. He gave me his number and told me to text him, so i did. He told me he thought i was gorgeous,which made me obviously in a good mood XD. But i'm afraid that to this guy, i'm just another cute girl, as the many others he talks to.I was talking to him and he was like " i could beat you up!" (jokingly) and i was like "Psh, i'd dominate your a$$" and then he said "In bed" ,causing me to say "Well thats a given" -- But i was joking, obviously,haha! i don't just want a hookup with him :( So! Question is! How in the WORLD do i get this guy to focus on me and only me!? He seems like he's actually kind of a sensitive guy underneath it all :P How can i tell if he just wants a hookup? How can i make him NOT just want a hookup with me? Should i even bother with him? Please help ! haha :P! (link)
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Yes you should bother! Sounds like you have a pretty good relationship going....now make it seem that you are the only girl for him.
Make it so that he doesn't go through a day without thinking of you..... whether it be of friendship first...
If he just wants to hookup, you'll be able to tell in the casual way of his manner not as serious or caring. It's in a girls instinct, you'll be able to tell.... This'll be easier since you want this(right?)
Any guy who's cute will flirt don't worry about that.
And him giving you his number is a good thing...unless he gives it to all girls??
I want to believe that every guy is a sensitive guy underneath...and it's true for many of them, you just need to find a way to make him think of you that way...
Just show that you care for him. That if he's at the end of the world you'll be there for him.
Once you're his girl, he'll stay away from the other girls becuase he'll know you're the only one for him!
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