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Member Since: September 27, 2009
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Last Update: October 2, 2009
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okay so i like this boy named colin. i liked him for 2 years. in the beginning of last year we were really close. we would sit with eachother in lunch at school and have one on one conversations. he would always walk with me to class and stuff like that. i first met him in the beginning of last year, but the year before that we would always talk to eachother on facebook and myspace and we had conversations that would go on and on and on. so i knew he liked me, it was really obvious. he would hold me and i once fell asleep on his arms and i almost kissed him but i got too scared, i just freaked, our faces were so close and our eye to eye for the longest time but i just looked down and layed my head in his chest. he also had tons of other friends at this one table at lunch but he would sit with me. i felt bad cuz i sat at this table that had really annoying kids, but he never left me and he never asked me to move to his friends table. he was nice. but i really love him a lot. i was getting doubts that he didnt like me, so this boy named dan asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes. so BOOM!..that was the crash of our close friendship. colin moved to his friends table while i was holding hands with a person i didnt love and deep down inside i was dieing. i cried every night. i am NOT lying. i did cry every night because he didnt walk me to class anymore. he would just wave to me in the hallway and thats it. after two weeks i left dan and i sat at the table with colins friends and i made friends with all of them. but colin wouldn't talk to me like he used to. just small conversations and no one on one time :(...so it's been a year like that, and i still cant stop thinking about him. so i sent him a message exactly like this "hey colin, um, i have feelings for you, so much so more than a friend. you dont need to respond to this."...he didnt have to respond but i thought he would. so it turned out he didnt respond. its only been a day since i sent him the message and i knew he got it because it said that he opened it. i dont know what to do. everytime i see him i want to cry and i shake when i am next to him. we dont even have classes together like last year. so when i see him in the hallway he justs gives me a wave and i just look down :( i hate this. please help me. (link)
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It sounds like Colin is suffering some hurt from a bruised ego. I'm guessing he thought you two were boyfriend and girlfriend, and then you up and leave him for another guy. Whether you liked this other guy or not isn't the issue. You've had a change of heart, and apparently so has Colin.
So you've moved to his table and he's still ignoring you? He may be trying to punish you for hurting him. I think all you can do at this point is apologize if you've hurt him. Apparently you did this in your text message. It is now his turn to respond. If he doesn't I think you have your answer.
Best case scenario, he has a chance to heal his ego and he may decide to pick up where he left off with you. Worst case, you both will have to move on. Good luck to you.
All my love,
Aunt Kerry
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thank you..its so hard...im thinking that maybe i should go up to him and talk to him in person about it..but im scared too, and its painful. so i saw him today and i didnt say anything to him. i noticed he glanced at me, but he didnt even come up to me and say hi..i wonder why he never comes up to me and say hi first. or start a cinversation first :(
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