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I dated this guy for a year and then I broke up with him when I was 19 almost 20. I have always loved him and held on to feelings for him, but I broke his heart and he withdrew from me and finally I didn't hear from him at all for about 4 years. I broke up with him because I focused on his imperfections instead of all of his wonderful qualities. Also, he wanted to get married and I don't think that I was ready for that at 19 or 20 and was scared. I am 26 now and more prepared for marriage. The thing is he called me up out of the blue about a year ago and told me that he had been married for 2 years and was now seperating because she cheated on him. We have been friends for the past year and his divorce is final and now I want to tell him that I want us to get back together but don't know if I should write a letter, or tell him in person, or write a brief letter and then talk to him in person or what I should even say. I don't know how he will react to this. What should I do?
I think that you should tell him in person. I will and that's the best way I feel to give important news to someone. You might be a little nervous about talking to him but, What's the worst that can happen. He can only tell you no. But I will still be aware of the fact that he has just gotten out of a marriage. So please take your time and think wisely about that. And if you do get back with him. Please treat him right he seems like a great guy that has been threw bad things with women.
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