about

Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

advice

15/f.
I have been talking to this boy M since August of last yr. We have never been together. When I first met him I wasn't so interested, and now I'm in love with him. Don't tell me I dont know what love is. I've never in my life felt the way I feel about him about any other boy. As of now he has a girlfriend A. We can't stand eachother at all. M knows how I feel, but the confusion is on how he feels. I know he cares somewhat, I dont know how much, or how little. I feel like he wants me to compete with her or something, and I just wont do that. Um on Monday we had sex for the first time. Right now I'm feeling like I should just give up, he makes no effort to talk to me, or to come see me. And Monday night I feel the only reason he came was to get some. When I tell him that I dont understand why he act's like he cares when he knows he doesn't, he tells me he does care and all this bullshit. I'm just so depressed cause I want to be with him, and I dont want him to be with her, or any other girl. But he seems to not care at all. And it doesn't make it any better that I have to see them all the time at school together. I'm thinking about changing schools or something, Idk how to deal with this, What should I do?

i know when falling for a guy who is drifting away makes it tough. i think he does care but not enough to be in a committed relationship. If it was just about sleeping with someone, he would have done it with someone else. He is making you feel worse about yourself and the only way you get back is if you cut him off completely. Lets say he leaves his g/f for you but the relationship gets to serious for him. you would be put in the same position as the current girlfriend and he would be cheating on you.

find a common interest to keep your mind off him because letting him go with probably be the hardest thing you will ever have to do. I play guitar and write music to get over guys. Sometimes i just write books and in a journal. I commit myself to my school work and make myself a better person. you are worth more than he is so you need to find someone worth your expectation.

[view]

(Rating: 5) thank you, you made a lot of sense, you're right & i think i just need to find something to focus on & drop him
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker