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Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
well first off it is not okay to be thinking that this other guy that you work with is "cute" or "attractive" at all. you shouldnt evenbe thinking of other guys. the only guy you should be thinking about is your man. the guy that you are with. plus when you think of other guys especially ones that you work with it's not good. you might tell yourself that it might not lead anywhere but in due time the more you think that the guy u work with is again is "cute or "attractive" the more you are going to be thinking about that person and not your boyfriend.
and that's something you dont want to happen. i nknow that you love your boyfriend but i dont think that it's a good idea to think about the guy at work in the way you think about him \. i think that you should just focus on your boyfriend and nobody else ok?
hope my advice helps:)
(Rating: 5) you give good advice, but you seemed pretty harsh. Just letting you know.