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Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu

This is completly normal to be attracted to someone else. You will do it and so will your boyfriend. Dont worry about it, it will pass. There will be another guy in the future that you will be attracted to too and its not that big of a deal as long as you dont have anything with him.

I know that it may make you feel bad, but really there is no reason to worry. And if you and your boyfriend are really close you may even consider telling him how you feel that way he can do the same. Ive always said whats the point of having eyes if you cant look?

Hope i helped =]

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