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Thankyou! :).
Okayy. Honestly, seeing the commercials and having the dreams don't really mean anything. It's most likely a coincidence. Condom commercials are ALWAYS on! You're just paying more attention to the condom commercials now, because sex was brought up in a recent conversation.
The dream: Again, sex was brought up in a recent conversation..so your dream is just playing off of whatever you're thinking when you fall asleep! Here's a link to a site if you'd like to look up meanings of the dream though: http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/
(Great site!)
I've read through what you wrote twice..and honestly, he's making it very obvious that ALL he wants is sex. He said from a 1-10 he gives you a 7? If he liked you as much as he say's he does..it wouldn't be a 7.
It's very good that you told him you're not interested in the friends with benefits stuff. However, he keeps trying to push the whole sex thing..which, I'm sure, is making you very uncomfortable. Tell him that! Make sure he knows you aren't comfortable with him pushing the whole sex thing. He's basically trying, in a non-force way, to convince you to have sex with him. Why? Because I'm sure he does like you! But, he's a young boy..what is he thinking about when he see's you? "She's a girl, She's hot, I'm horny, I'll do her." Haha. That's the extent of his thinking. And, in his mind you're playing hard to get, so it's VERY possible he just want's to be the guy who actually got you to do it, but that depends because not all guy's think like that. Just remember: Stick to what you believe in!!
Now, when you said "Can I bring a friend?"..he probably thinks that you all are going to have sex..why do I say that? Because he mentioned bringing a condom even after you said that. Which right away shows all he wants is sex.
Remember this: Guy's will tell you ANYTHING they think you want to hear just to have sex with you. Sounds desperate right? Well, that's how they are!
When he was saying he was going to kiss you and everything and you can slap him if he doesn't stop? I'm sorry..but that's weird! What did he mean when he said it'd be worth it? He meant that kissing you would just make him happy. Although, you already know he wants way more than that. "I just want you for some reason.." he wants you sexually, ONLY.
I agree with you on the whole not hanging out with him alone thing. That could cause not only the friendship to end..but it can cause you heartbreak. And even worse, he may even try to force himself on you because obviously this guy wants sex badly. So, be careful and always hang around public places with a bunch of people when/if you're around him. (Mall, Park, School, etc.)
If he keeps asking you to have sex with him..I strongly suggest that you limit your time talking to him, because I know you don't want to stop talking to him. And! I suggest that you make it very clear, even if you have to call him or see him to tell him, and make sure he knows you want a relationship before sex!
Good luck!
Feel free to inbox me to ask me anything else and/or tell me what happens haha.
:)
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