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I am here to help you in anyway I can do in my power. I believe that it comes a time in life that we may all need some advice. And sometimes, you can't go to your friends, family, co-workers with certain issues so you come here. And it's very reassuring when you have some place to go. And people who will listen to you whatever subject it maybe.
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Age: 26
Member Since: August 24, 2009
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Ok my story is a little bit long am sorry.
My boyfriend and i roke up in april 18 of 2009. then in may 03 he got with another girl. after that i made them brake up because i didnt liked the fact that he was with another girl. Ok he broke up with her in may29. Then in july 30th he got back with me.He was telling me all this stuff that he cantk with him because i really do love him. Then now in agust 1 he left to the dominican republic.Just 2 days ago i found out he has another live without me and sooo on.I whent bacgirl ovethere. at fisrt i thought his friend were just kidding but then i saw some pictures of him huggind with the girl and too closed together.there is another one with them in the pool together.right now he doesnt know that i know he has another girl. he is coming back on sunday. i dont want to call him and insult him because then he will end up staying ovethere,and i will be debastated.If you were in this position what will you do??
Very complicated huh? But I need to know, why do you even want to beith a guy that you know and have the proff that he's with another women. Odviously you can't mean that much to him if he feels that he has to have a double life. And if you mean anything to him, it could be just him. Maybe he has sometime of sickness that involves being with multiple women and one can't sasisfy him. I mean the first time you g broke up in weeks he aleady moved on.
You know what I would really do. I would move on with my life and leave him far behind. But first I would confront him. I would wait till he's down here. An then I would ask him to meet me in a quiet place. I will confront him with the edvidence and then I would here him out. Because nothing would pleasure me more than to here his sorry story. And then I would build up the courage to kick his sorry a** to the curve.
I don't know if you have read some of my previous advice. But I also tell peoplethat's it's not so bad to be alone. I've been in your shoes, nd I know how it feels to put some much love out there and get a stab in the back BACK. You're wasting your time with a guy that proably would never give you a true sense of happiness, anduntil you realize that, things are going o continue to surface... The best of luck to you and if you shall need to talk anymore please feel free...
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