Member Since: August 26, 2009 Answers: 4 Last Update: August 28, 2009 Visitors: 607
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16/f
alright. yeah i have a boyfriend, yeah im pregnant (you cant tell still).
buuuut, theres this real cute girl that goes to my school. shes a 'dyke' if you call people that. but anyways, i really wanna get to know her but everytime i wanna talk to her i get nervous. i dont wanna hook up or date her but i just wanna be her friend but i get sooo nervous since shes so cute when i wanna try to be her friend.
what are some good ways to not get all nervous ? thanks (link)
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First of all, there is nothing to be afraid of- just because someone is a homosexual doesn't mean they are attracted to you immediately. Get rid of you pre-judgement and get to know her first by keeping in mind that she is just like everyone else. When you have that prejudgment out of your mind, talking to her will not be scary at all. I have many lesbian friends (I am straight). When you talk to her, hint to her that you have a boyfriend, so if she is trying to hook up with you, she knows she will not have a chance. Don't let sexual orientation hold you back on making a new friend. Good luck!
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i dont have any prejudgement... my problem is that i think shes cute and i kind of like her and i get nervous to talk to her...not that im scared to talk to her because she'll like ME. i like girls !
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