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My friend told me that she is gay and I do not want to be friends with her anymore. It's not that I don't like her as a person but I cannot grasp the fact that she has become a lesbian. Just months ago she was dating men and now she is claiming homosexuality. I don't like it and the entire thing makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to avoid her now more than ever since she has confessed her sexuality to me and I feel that I need to just tell her to her face why I no longer have interest in our friendship. How should I tell her? What should I say? I don't want to come off as cruel by saying, "You're a homosexual and that makes me too uncomfortable to continue a friendship with you," but at the same time I think it sounds most appropriate because it is the truth.
I know it isn't fair of me to not tell her why I have been avoiding contact with her. I know I should tell her but I'm not sure how I should go about this. I was thinking a neutral setting would be most appropriate but I don't want to embarrass her if she gets upset in some form.
Does anyone have experience with this or any ideas of how I should handle this matter? Thank you.
I don't think that you should end your friendship because of that. I mean just tell her you don't want to have a relationship with her and you will never like her in that way. Make sure she doesn't come on to you. If you still don't want to be her friend then just tell her nicely but be truthful. I think you should continue to be her friend though. But it's what you want. I hope this helps.
(Rating: 3) It isn't that I think she is going to "come on" to me actually. I simply do not agree with homosexuality and would rather not have a person of that nature in my life. I am against it and will not change my beliefs based on one friendship, no matter how strong it once was. Thank you for your words but it simply wasn't helpful to me in this situation.