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Q: so i'm new at this school and im beginning to like this guy. i see him every day in one of my classes. the thing is im kind of confused about him and i never really got the chance to talk to him. i started to notice him the first time we had class together and i think he realised that because at the end of class he kind of checked me out before he left. he sits infront of me and yesterday he turned around about 3 or 4 times during class to look at me, i always blushed and looked away and so did he when he saw me looking.
but then when class ends i always try to get closer to him to talk to him but he always walks by me ignoring me not even seeing me. same thing today, during class he turned around twice but ignored me outside class. and later on when school finished he was at the front door, about to leave but he turned around again to look at me and then left. i thought it was really cute so i smiled at him but he didnt smile back cause he didnt see it fast enough. and i know hes really shy and quiet and it seems to me like he didnt have lots of experience with girls. he's a little emo-ish but still talks to all the other groups so i dont think i have to be emo to be liked by him. i do think that he noticed me because i know im pretty etc but i dont know what to do. then again ive only been at this school for one week haha. any tips? (:
I'll give you a few tips to help you out with this guy :).

Tips on how to get him to notice you more:
-Smile and make eye contact!(You site behind him..so this will probably be easy. Just make eye contact and smile at him when he turns.)
-Establish communication (Say hi to him! Don't be shy. You even said yourself that you think he's a little shy. So, be the first one to just start the conversation)
-Become friends with him. (It will get you noticed and this often can lead to a serious relationship)
-And finally! Get to know him better. (When you do start talking to him, eventually, start finding out things about him! Ask him questions based on what you already know about him. However, I'm sure that's not much. So..just ask him the simple things first. Guy's don't like being asked TOO many questions. But, I'm sure they don't mind some. For example, ask him what his hobbies are, or his favorite things to do, what kind of music he likes,etc. Maybe even try doing some of the stuff he likes with him! Make sure you also add in some of your experiences that relates to what he's saying. What I mean is..if he say's he likes to swim or something..if you like doing similar things, tell him! This will make for good conversation and for you both to get to know eachother.)

Yes, it is true..the first thing a guy notices is how you look. However, you said you're pretty and new to the school, so it's possible that's why he's looking at you. But, of course, I don't know him so I wouldn't know how he is with girls. The only way you can truly find out if he likes you is to get to know him. I'm sure once you do all this, you'll figure it out. It does seem like he does have an interest though, especially because he turns often to look at you. I'm sure it'll all go great!

Here's a link to a site that may help you figure out if he likes you:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_tell_if_a_girl_or_a_guy_likes_you

Good luck, Hope I helped :)

thankies (:

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