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First of all, don't ever tell anyone you will wait for them! Especially when they are in a relationship! You already said you know that he likes her more than you, so why would you wait for him when you could be with somebody? Talk to this guy and tell him that you're going to, of course, date other people. But, if he's single and your single..then it may happen.
The other guy who doesn't want your friends telling you: it's pretty obvious he likes you! However, dating someone to get his mind off of you? Um, yeah, not a good idea haha. I've been in your situation a lot. It's possible he's just too nervous and shy to ask you out! So, try talking to him and, if you have feelings for him, tell him you do. Guy's can't mind read! It makes it so simple just to straight out tell him how you feel. And, hopefully, he'll realize he doesn't have strong feelings for his girlfriend like he does for you (if that's true).
YOU'RE 14! You're not going to find "mr.right". When you're young, you need to date a few guys so you can figure out who your mr.right really is! It's hard to find a really good guy in high school. All they really want at a young age is sex. So, the best advice I could give you is to make sure you get to know these guys and/or any guys you ever want to date before you do anything with them. I see too many younger girls hurt because their boyfriend cheat on them.
Good qualities you can look for in a guy?:
-Great sense of humor.
-Faithful/Loyal (very important!)
-Respects you.
-Good communication skills! (also, very important!)
-Affectionate/Caring.
-Appreciative and Forgiving.
-Confident.
And finally!
-Loves YOU for YOU!
Good luck, hope I helped :)
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