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Q: so i'm new at this school and i want people to like me. how can i make this happen? today was my first day and people where nice to me etc but i still have noone to hang out with and i was alone in the breaks. what can i do to have a 'good vibe' ??
It would be incredibly unusual if you had become extremely popular on your first day. First day's always seem worse than they'll be in the long run, I've had my share where the people didn't even like me to begin with..

Give it a bit of time. In a few days you'll feel much better and more settled in. If you really want to speed up the process, however, there's only one sure way to do that, and it's to get out there and make the first move. Smile at classmates and initiate conversations whenever you can. At first things may seem really awkward but everyone will go through that stage, it's unavoidable until you get used to the people and your new surroundings.

I can assure you though that if you make the first move towards friends you'll soon find the awkward phase has not only subsided but become a thing of the past.

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Grazia
I'm in my second year of junior college, I'm taking English, pure maths, philosophy A, sociology, french and biology intermediate. There's not much about me I can write here, but I'll probably still end up writing things anyway..basically i just really like nice, non-judgmental people who have a sense of humour.

Im really optimistic, inspired, ambitious, dreamy, crazy, and unpredictable. I try to be non-judgmental, Im v.v open minded, sometimes can be a bit stubborn though. I love being passionate about things and certain people, having really close loving relationships.. living life to the full. I despise authority, believe in nature, adore music, love animals, nonconformist in every sense, unorganised, love adventure. Having fun with friends, playing games like we used to, having long meaningful conversations, building relationships, being able to feel free, being myself... Listening to music when I travel, enjoying nature.. hope to do something I love in the future.. mainly study psychology, maybe journalism, I would really love to do voluntary work in different countries. I really love travelling and..well, I write... Dont know what else to say (=.. ermm hope you're doing swell

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I was born in Italy, raised in England but currently live in Malta.

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