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Age: 22
Member Since: June 8, 2009
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Last Update: September 30, 2009
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I dated this one guy for almost a year and felt so trapped and left out of my social circle I just froze up. I totally stopped talking to mark. Finally after about two weeks we talked and cut it off. Its been almost four months and I finally decided to apologize. I tried repeatedly to gert him to meet up with me so we could talk in person about the whole thing and he refused. After a while I just gave in and did it over text. He then told me he forgave me but wanted me to leave him alone for good. He told me I could never fix things and we could never be friends because I hurt him so badly. I see him every sunday at chuch and he won't even look at me. He won't let his friends even be nice to me or let them even say hey. I want to fix this. What should I do? (link)
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Unfortunately, you'll find that a lot of guys will react the same way upon a breakup. It's nothing against the girl personally in most situations: we just don't really see a need to continue being friends with someone we loved when they don't want us anymore. We know when the ship has sailed and we'd rather focus on finding someone new than spend time with somebody who doesn't want to be with us anymore.
When we were all cavemen, there was little to be gained for a man to spend time with a woman who didn't want to be with him because there wasn't a chance to pass on his genes. Without that, there's no reason.
It sucks, but that's evolutionary psychology for you.
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Rating: 5
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What if I want to get back with him?
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