well i'm nice i love to give addvise and i love to make friends.
Gender: Female
Location: guyana
Occupation: i go school
Age: 16
AIM: to be a councelor
Member Since: August 10, 2009
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[I apologize if in wrong category]
I have been dating this guy for nearly a month. We really love each other, and feel we're right for each other. I know it's too soon to tell (some may say), but it's like we suddenly connected our first date.
Now he wants to get an apartment, and asked me to live with him. I thought I could get some money in, and help out. He wants to get it around the fall, giving me time to save up some money [from my job].
I know it's a quick move, but this is why I really wanna move out: My parents abuse me, they yell at me, blame me for everything, and put me down. I am tired of babysitting my alcoholic mom until 5 am while my dad is working the graveyard shift at a lame job (because he got laid off from his real job). I was diagnosed with depression when I was 16, when I felt I had it since I was 12. Being here, at home, is dreadful. I am always feeling sad, depressed, and sometimes suicidal. Because I try to make my parents proud, but I feel as if I am not good enough.
I can't stay up late [for my mom] when I have work, I can't do it when I have school, because I attend college as well. He [boyfriend] even will help me with my loans, and we agreed to help each other out. Finances are no big deal because we have decent jobs to get a small apartment.
I really want to move in with my boyfriend, because he makes me happy, and I feel no need to take my antidepressants (When I know I have to regardless so I still do). I am loving life now, and cherishing all the small things. But the second I get in the door at home, hell arises.
You think I should move in with him? Or stay at home? I hope you'd agree with my choice, but I'd like everyone's opinion.
Thanks
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girl dont move out from your family.cause that boy maybe just telling you he love you and when you move out he will leave you.that is what i think.
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you didn't comprehend anything i said in this question.
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