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Member Since: August 7, 2009
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Last Update: August 10, 2009
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my boyfriend and i just broke up after 9 months, i broke up with him.

well before i dated my boyfriend my ex and i dated for 8 months and i broke up with him to, and he was devestated and i know he really loved me and he was heartbroken for months and i told him it was because i just wasn't feeling it anymore but i was.. i left him because i was scared to get my heartbroken because i honestly loved him and ive had my heart broken before that and i couldn't stand to have it happen again and so i guess i broke up with him before he could brake up with me, but i don't know why because i know he loved me and wouldn't have broken up with me, we never had one fight the whole 8 months we dated well now im single and so is he and we've been talking again and i want to be with him so bad but i dont know if he would ever date me because of what i did and i told him it was because of other reason why i did it and not because i was scared i mean i was 16 and in love and it like.. just scared me because i was so young im 17 now almost 18 and i dont know i feel like im ready to love again it sounds corny i know but its just how i feel, how do i talk to him about this? im afraid to say i want him back because i dont know how hes going to react and i dont know, does anyone have any advice? (link)
I think you should think about the other guy you broke up with. The nine month one. What about him? You did the same thing to someone else. My guess is the first guy will see a pattern and not date you again.


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i broke up with the 9 months guy because he's cheated on me 3 times already, lies about everything , and makes me feel like crap 99%, of the time and not to mention he's emotionally abusive thats why i broke up with him..




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