Flirting is, of course, harmless. But, you should've thought about this before you started talking to him. He's 10+ years older than yourself..when guy's get near their 30's they want to start settling down. You're almost 18, you're going to explore different guys, have fun, and just be a normal teenage girl! This is something you must tell him to get him to understand. Obviously age doesn't matter to him (which I'm not saying is bad!) but you are a lot younger than he is..and the big thing is, you're 17. I don't know why he would even think he would be able to settle down with someone who isn't even 18 yet. Doesn't he remember when he was your age? I'm sure he wasn't settling down. Just tell him you want to talk and eventually say something like this. "I'm not even 18 yet..I want to enjoy being a teenager. I'm sorry but I'm not interested in settling down this young." You can even tell him (if you want) that you can still be good friends, but that he should try and find someone closer to his own age who would be ready for a "forever" relationship. And, as the person below me said, he's pretty much taking advantage of the fact that you're young and won't have "alarms" going off as fast as someone closer to his age would. I would also stop the flirting..it may lead him on to think he has a chance of having you when you're 18. Remember, don't come off as being mad, annoyed, or not wanting to talk to him anymore..just be yourself and act normal. He should understand! If he doesn't, you might want to stop talking to him.

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