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Well, I am a 19 year old female and I met a 22 year old guy in the middle of March. We hit it off pretty good. Only problem was he lived in England and I lived in the States. Four thousand miles apart, not cool. After a month and a half things started going down hill. He became extremely emotionally distant and very busy. I'd probably get only five minutes a week if I was really lucky. Finally after another month and a half I got fed up with it and walked away from the relationship.

Apparently, that struck a blow to his pride. Not but a few days after I left I heard news he was back out in the dating arena. I too also got involved with a crazy psycho unintentionally for a month, but finally ended it. Come to find out I missed my ex and decided to try and gain his trust back. He has not talked to me since I left him and has ignored both of my emails.

I know I did not hurt him that bad, for his ex-fiance did worse. I was very polite and nice when I left. Only other reason I can think of is he just wasn't really interested in me to begin with. But, I am still in love with him. I can't even date other guys because it only seems as though he is the only attractive male on this planet. I hate it. I want him to come back, but deep down I know he probably won't. I don't bug him constantly, I refuse to come across as needy and desperate. He is after all a Sagittarius and I a Capricorn.

I know I should just move on, but part of me still has hope for the future. A rather hopeless future destined to for a miserable life, but whatever. Maybe one day I will eventually move on. I just wish I knew how to get him out of my mind. I do not keep in contact with him and have not sent him any emails/texts/calls besides that one time. He knows I am single by now, but then again some people say if he really wants to be with me he will come back and if he doesn't I just need to move on...so yeah give me some thoughts. Thanks.

If he doesnt come back it just wasnt meant to be. If he didnt like you in the first place dont get all upset because he isnt worth the trouble. Get a new hobby, try sports, or just anything to get him off your mind. In time your heart will mend and you'll find someone better that actually likes you for you. Hope this helps! Ttyl! Xoxo, Farrah Gonzalez

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