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So.. um. My best friend is starting the last year of high school this year, and her mom is very sick and is going to die. Lately she has been in a very bad psychological state, depressed and stuff like that. She has been drinking quite a lot, and when she was drunk the other day she started telling me stuff like she doesn't know what to do if her mother dies, and half her life is going to go away and stuff like that. She also said she's happy she has all of us (her friends) and stuff, but generally she sounded like she was really in a horrible mental state.
Can you please give me advice on what I can do? (link)
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Two of my friends are kind of going through the same thing. There Grandmothers, who are the ones who raised them through out there lives are getting ready to pass away. You just have to keep close to her, let her know you love her. Make sure she has as much love as she can handle, and you should probable try to get her to brake down with out alcohol. It's better that way. She needs to be close to the ones who love her the most. She's going to hurt when the time of her moms death does come, but she's going to be okay. Death is apart of life, and you must explain to her once her mother does pass on that she's in a better place and not in so much pain. I mean I just reasontly lost my Dad in a car crash we we're in together, so I know it hurts to lose the ones you love the most. So just keep her positive, and keep close, make sure you take care of her. Don't let her become a drunk, try to find other things to keep her mind off of the subject of her mother dieing. Unless you're deffently ready to have her brake down for you. : ) Which she needs to do, to get all of it out there so she can have a better understanding of everything.
Good Luck
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