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hey i wrote this question:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=567275

and you answered. and i was thinking about what you said.

we do text and talk out of school (i.e., through facebook) but it's only just when something is up. for instance, if i need to tell him something, i'd text or message him or visa versa. i'm seeing him TOMORROW. a bunch of our mutual friends and both he and i are going to the movies. i will sit next to him. should i say / do something then? is it too soon?

thank you!!!!

The only way its too soon is if its too soon for you. Im sure he wont mind. Its not like your having sex. Its just flirting and becoming closer. When you guys are at the movies, sit next to him, put your arm through his, hold his hand, lean on him, all that good stuff. And keep it up while your walking out of the movie. Stay close to him , keep your arm thru his, pull him close to you when you guys are walking. See how he acts. I would even think about kissing him on the cheek at the end of the night. Sometimes you hafta go after what you want ya know?? He might be too shy or self conscious to make a move. He may be afraid that you dont like him like that even tho your making it obvious that you do. Guys are dumb sometimes haha. And plus, alot of guys like aggressive girls that will go after what they want. They dont always want to be the one to make the first move. Go for it! Let me know what happens!!! Good Luck!

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