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Lately I've been able to predict pretty accurately what happens to me emotionally on certain days by merely looking at the calendar.
I've never had anything like this. It's been this way ever since I met this boy. Like I'd get feelings that I would be sad or happy or whatever on a certain day or time months in advance. And it's always what I expected it to be.
Even the things I've said to that boy about my feelings or fears about certain times turns out to be extremely accurate. Like thoughts like "I can't wait until this certain month" or "I need to get through this certain month". Then when I do reach that month, it comes true.
Could it be that the emotions that I have during that time period is so strong I can sense it? All of the strong feelings that I have are according to that boy. Or could it be that I'm thinking everything through so much that I'm catching on to the patterns in life? (link)
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Actually, its more likely a self fulfilling prophesy. Rather than having any sort of power at all, you unconsciously set a "I should feel this way at this time" and then when you remember it, you sink into that emotion.
There is absolutely nothing psychic or supernatural about this. More than likely, you have a psychological control complex and hate feeling helpless, so this is your coping mechanism. By thinking about the future and how you feel, and then making yourself feel that way when the time comes about, you feel in control. It makes you feel like you know whats coming.
In truth, whats coming is entirely your own creation.
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