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Hey guys, Im Erika. I am looking into studying psychology in college. I am VERY GOOD at giving advice. I have been through many things in my life. I am currently in a relationship. i know A LOT about relationships, because I've been in one for many years. giving advice is something i deeply enjoy doing, because i love helping other with their problems and i can relate easily to other people.

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(sorry if this turns out to be long il do my best to explain in a nutshell)
Okay,so im getting a little annoyed right now at how my best friend treats guys..
So its like she often wishes how shes in a relationship and wants a boyfriend etc and she ALWAYS attracts theese really lovely lovely guys,but yet she always has to find something wrong with them or a reason not to go out with them she gets bored quickly and messes them about,yet then still complains about not having a boyfriend its like shes oblivous to this.


The most recent guy she told me a few weeks ago how she really liked him,So today we went to the park and he text her and said he would come up to meet her and bring a few friends and she agreed yet when she saw him coming she was like"ugh I dont want to meet up with him" and made me do a detour to avoid them! he texted her then asking whats up she didnt reply,we saw him later down town,she blanks him.
shes not a shy type at all so its not that,she just doesnt know whether shes coming or going.
I don't know what to do because I often get friendly with some of the guys she likes and they always ask me whats the deal should I say it to her?
I don't want to come off jealous,which I will admit I am a little bit that she gets all this male attention and treats the guys like sh*t. people tell me I have a much nicer personality then her and im prettier and all this,yet I cant understand why I cant attract all theese really nice guys that she does?I attract the wrong types!?(which my friend finds funny) is it me?
am I doing something wrong?
should I talk to her about this or let it go.. If so what do I say? I feel like im never going to get a decent guy like all the ones she gets that she turns away
Thanks for any advice sorry if this is long and seems stupid!

seriously. we are both in the same position! when my bestfriend finally gets a good guy, she throws him away and when he doesnt like her anymore she goes after him. and she always complains!

i mean im always straightup with her. bestfriends should be able to call eachother out on what they do. she calls me out all the time, but not in a bad way. tell her like its kinda mean what she does and say it doesnt make sense. just try to convince her that like she keeps pushing guys away and stuff. my bestfriend is extremely hard-headed, so i know where your coming from.

and nooo its not you! maybe you just dont flirt enough! texting always helps like attract and stuff. if your prettier, dont worrry :] everythingshould turnout just fine

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(Rating: 5) haha awh thank you that helped alot its good to know im like not the only one! she always wants them when they dont want her too,haha il never understand it. I will thanks =)
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